The operative word is “yet.” A modified patience is the key. Rust is not necessary, (although it does complicate things sometimes), but there is nothing like the death grip of two pieces of metal that have been screwed together for 100 years or more.
My record so far is 17 days. That was a Rolling Block carbine with the barrel in the barrel vise, an anvil tied to the action wrench, occasional applications of heat and Kroil to the receiver/barrel joint, and a good bash with a lead hammer every now and then as I passed the setup and got annoyed with it.
It was a day like any other day. There was the setup, irritating the heck out of me like it had for over two weeks. The anvil hung by the hardie hole six inches off the floor just as it had from the beginning. I grabbed the lead hammer, gave the wrench handle a good bash, and the anvil dropped to the floor. I thought for a moment that the barrel had come loose in the vise, but the top of the receiver was no longer aligned with the rear sight holes.
The receiver unscrewed the rest of the way by hand. No rust. I walked out the door, held the receiver to the sky, beat my chest and howled in triumph!
If you don’t have an anvil, a bucket of lead ingots from your casting setup works too. Maybe your friend will beat my record. Best of luck.